and every moment you’re unhappy you push the guy further and further away.
The last few months were rough because his grandmother passed away after being in the hospital for a few months.
At the heart of it, it’s the feeling of fear of loss.
When you believe that you could lose something, you’ll instinctively shrink inside and it will take the wind out of your sails.
It means that you are not imprisoned in a reality where you can’t be happy unless you get a very, specific outcome with one particular person.
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