Black women are wonderful (we know this) but somehow many of our clients often believe that dating a sister is no longer “in style” for Black men. Often times, if we are accomplished, we’re seen as too independent, and if we don’t have an established career and completely cater to a man’s needs, we’re often looked at as “gold diggers.” We can’t win!The white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women.White women range from those so intrigued by black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men that it feels more racist than preference-driven.We must continue to fight to dispel many of these myths and take control of our own connections and destiny. Read the next slide to find out how we move past these misjudgements and get real.
Not all men feel this way, although it’s important to understand that many do.
Dispelling these myths and introducing them to great single friends we know is the best next step.
Black women have told me it's because I'm a sellout.
Some brothers seriously think so, and feel they’ve seen evidence of it early on within relationships.
They often say they feel more supported by women of other ethnicities earlier on in their careers and during their college years.