It's a cruel matter of biology: an older man can supply a child to his younger spouse, but not so the mature woman.
My advice to you would be to see this as a rejuvenating, lighthearted liaison that helps bridge the gap between divorce and the next great life adventure.
The truth is, one liaison with a younger man doesn't turn you into some sort of Cougar.
Why does everyone make such a meal about age differences when it comes to love?
ANSWER: It sounds to me like you're worrying more about what everyone else thinks than what you think yourself.
When women are young and looking for Mr Right to share a hearth and to father children, they should consider every single practical aspect of a potential partner.
The confidence, sophistication and sexual experience of a 50-something woman is invariably light years away from her 20-year-old self.And I presume he thought my youth compensated for my sexual inexperience.The truth is you might not yet be ready for the dyed-in-the-wool habits of a 50-something bachelor.All of my divorced female friends have a firm rule about not introducing any new suitor until they know he will be in their lives for some while.If things do progress, you will need to sit your children down and discuss the matter sensitively, gauging their reaction.