”, “Johnny has band practice tomorrow, can you pick him up? Often the fear of what others will think will not let him do it, as the man does not want to become the “bad guy” in their eyes as the daddy who left in their early years.Nobody wants to be in a relationship that doesn’t grow.Sure there are a few people who actually leave their wives when they have met their “soul mate”. Although he gets to the point where he is saying he loves the side chick, he is usually more in love with his kids.In a loveless marriage with small children, the kids become more of a silver lining and the focus of all the reasons to deal with the unhappiness of no sex and conversation that only revolves around household duties (“did you pay the light bill?The man more than likely plays into this often times telling her things such as “I wish I could have met you years ago”.This makes her feel as if the only thing keeping them apart is the ring on his finger.
This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!
Jacquemet acknowledges financial support from the as well as ANR-10-LABX-93-01.
Part of this work has been completed while he was at Université de Lorraine (BETA).
The other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to.
Eventually those sneaky late night phone calls end abruptly with “I gotta go!