As my wife and I started to grow apart after 19 years of marriage, the conflict between the desire to be happy, and the desire to honor the marriage started to collide. As we drifted apart, we began turning to external forces in order to maintain our sanity and marriage. I used to read about lonely housewives, now I was becoming one, a lonely house husband.
The thought of being married but alone is not something I was prepared to handle. You see, I don’t remember the exact point in time, perhaps 5 years into our marriage, but I started catching myself fantasizing about other women – sexually and otherwise.
I finally met a couple of the women I had connected with online through this site.
Yet, I had needs that weren’t filled by my marriage and that is when I decided to look outside the marriage to fulfill these needs.
I created this blog in hopes that you won’t have to go through the same trial and tribulations I have in finding the perfect dating site for married people.
And because of that and a host of other reasons, these women are mature and sophisticated enough to understand the concept of discreetness.
For the sake of full disclosure, there were a few profiles that seemed to slip through the cracks, and times where the lonely married women would not be interested in me or what I had to offer…I guess you can’t have a cake and it too!